Seducing Women

Strength is an essential attribute for seducing women, but it's not the strength you're probably thinking. I'm not talking about physicalstrength but a different kind. Strength comes into play when you're drawing personal boundaries and handling congruence tests.

Congruence tests mean tests to see if you're strong or not. Girls are looking to see certain things – Do you stand up for yourself? Do you let peoplepush you around? Women are always going to test you. It's going to happen and it's a good thing actually. You can totallybase your game around it.

In fact, the whole same night lay game is all about constructing and then passing a series of sexual congruency tests. When I tell a girl I'm trying to get into her pants and she says, 'It's not going to work,' I say, 'We'll see.' When I say this and keep talking, I gain value in her eyes. Basically, if you don't leave or get shaken at all, you gain attraction.

One common test in the field is when a girl says, 'Buy me a drink.' The way to handle this is to be a little bit absurd and then change the subject. For example, tell her, 'Oh yeah, totally. It's waiting for you at the other end of the bar. And while you're there…'

Or say something like, 'Well, I don't buy bitches drinks, but if you make out with me I will.'

What if she says, 'I have a boyfriend?'

Show her that you're indifferent by saying something like, 'Cool, that's great. We can just be friends. But is he going to be mad if I try to have sex with you?'

You can see how all of these examples follow the same pattern. You agree, make it absurd, and then change the subject. It shows that you're strong and indifferent to those things.

The other place where strength is important is in drawing personal boundaries. How do you let people treat you? Do you let them push you around or do you stand up for yourself?

For example, a girl might ask you to hold her drink. Take it from her and then put it on the table. There's no reason to hold her drink when there's a perfectly good table sitting right there.

It's important to demonstrate your strength when you're seducing women because it's something they're attracted to. Remember, I don't mean physical strength. It's more like social or mental strength.